Friendship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For the past few months i had been considering the option of starting a blog,but more often reminded of the fact that it is still a long way(experience & language) before i could really propel it.But i yielded to temptation that is why i am here.Then I was really in confusion regarding how to begin with and finally decided to give a brief note about the so called friendship.



I did my schooling in tirunelveli.(first in Rosemary matric school till standard V and the latter part in Jayendra Swamigal School) . I am on the verge of finishing my college life at MSEC.


Those unforgettable and glorious days with not even a trace of sorrow,worry,anger,hate,greed and jealousy but filled with childish enthusiasm.Life was nothing but a dream.The rationale was that friends in school life came without any expectations and they didn't explore the benefits which would arise if they joined hands with us.

But in college life the meaning of friendship is entirely different. These are the qualifications required to form a gang of friends.

1)blindly support Ur friend even if he is leading to the path of destruction.

2)must be generous in flattery and conservative in criticism(even if it is inevitable).

3) must not only study well but should be well versed in arguments.

4)must be strong in peter(English) and also have as many friends in the opposite side as many people may come to sign a barter(friendship) with a confidence that u will introduce them.

5)Should not take things in emotional point of view( need not go for a management course bcoz in the course of time u would acquire the qualities of a shrewd business man).

6)Always have a self centric approach.Don't be innocent as people may give lime water to drink in the guise of milk and never worry about the feelings of others with a implication that u
have to shed Ur feelings first.

if u don't have at least few of these traits u are likely to be isolated or neglected.You would be termed either as a person of 1980s or a cynic.

This is my conviction after closely watching many people throughout this college life.The main motive which made me to make this harsh statement is the traumatic events which had happened during past few days.My observation may be quite wrong but i would like to take an excuse under the label "Freedom Of Speech" and I emphasize that no one is there to be blamed as only a person's attitude makes him to feel happy or sorrow throughout his life.If some one believes that my statement is correct at least from now onwards try to be faithful to relationships.Please spend more time with family members as they are our everlasting well wishers and put efforts to make them feel happy.Teamwork is important but only individuals have stood in history.

I am sure that my next post will not disseminate bitter feelings.thanks for Ur patience.
goodbye.